The Maximizer
You're searching for the best option that doesn't exist yet.
You hold everything to the highest standard — yourself, your choices, your relationships. That's not a flaw. But it means you often leave decisions feeling vaguely unsatisfied, even when you chose well. The best option is a moving target. Every choice you make closes the door on something else, and you feel that closing keenly. Research shows maximizers tend to achieve objectively better outcomes, but report feeling worse about them. The question isn't whether you can make perfect decisions. It's whether perfect decisions are even what you're after.